Can I change custody if my ex’s partner is dangerous?

On Behalf of | Dec 18, 2024 | Modifications And Enforcement

In Charlestown and Boston, family dynamics change. New relationships form, and sometimes, these changes may risk your child’s safety. If you believe your ex-partner’s new partner endangers your child, you might wonder about modifying your custody arrangement.

What constitutes a custody modification?

Massachusetts courts allow custody modifications when a significant change affects the child’s best interests. A potentially dangerous individual in your child’s life could qualify as such a change. Courts consider several factors when evaluating risk:

  • Evidence of abuse or neglect
  • Criminal history, especially violence or child abuse
  • Substance abuse issues
  • Mental health concerns affecting childcare
  • Behavior that directly endangers the child

Massachusetts law requires clear evidence of risk to modify custody. The court will examine all aspects of the situation, including the child’s current living conditions, relationship with both parents and the influence of the new partner on the child’s life.

How to modify custody due to a risky new partner

If you believe your ex-partner’s new partner poses a genuine risk to your child, take these steps:

  1. Document your concerns with specific incidents and dates
  2. Gather evidence like police reports or witness statements
  3. File a modification complaint with the appropriate court
  4. Prepare for a hearing to present your case

The court focuses on the child’s best interest. You must show how the new partner’s presence negatively impacts your child’s safety or well-being.

Approach this situation carefully. Avoid unfounded accusations, as false claims can damage credibility and potentially harm your custody rights. First, try to communicate openly with your ex-partner. Addressing concerns directly might resolve issues without court involvement.

If you face this challenging situation in Charlestown or Boston, seek legal advice. A family law attorney can guide you through the custody modification process and help protect your child’s best interests.